You can quit a job in two weeks. The wrong circle can quietly tax your love, your work, and your life for years. This assessment audits the people closest to you across four dimensions — so you can see, honestly, who builds you, who drains you, and who belongs in your next season.
Takes 10–15 honest minutes · Rate 2–5 people closest to you · Your words never leave this page — nothing is stored or sent
At the end: a printable Circle Report you can download as a PDF
One ask before you begin: answer honestly. Every prompt is required, and this audit only works if you tell the truth about the people you love.
Nobody sees this but you. Before any scores, write the honest, unedited truth about the people around you right now. The guide gently checks that your answer is real — placeholder text won’t get past this page, because your relationships deserve better than a shortcut.
First names or initials are fine — this list is for your eyes only. Choose the people who take up the most space in your life right now: family, friends, a partner, a mentor, a colleague. Include at least one relationship you have questions about. That’s the point.
Rate each statement from 1 (never true) to 5 (always true). Answer from evidence — what this person actually does — not from history, guilt, or hope.
Something surfaced while you scored those names — a surprise, a confirmation, maybe a knot in your stomach on one of them. Name it before the numbers do.
Each person is scored out of 40 across Character, Alignment, Reciprocity, and Energy. The category is not a verdict on them as a human — it’s a reading of what this relationship is currently doing to you.
A circle is never neutral. It is either compounding you or taxing you — in how you love, how you work, and how you live.
Your testimony, before and after the numbers. Notice what you already knew.
An audit read and forgotten changes nothing. Choose your next move — walk through your results with a guide, or go deep on your own.
Bring your Circle Report and talk it through — the hard conversation you’re avoiding, the boundary you need, the builder you should be leaning on. 30 minutes, free, no pressure.
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